I hope so. Maybe tomorrow even. Since we are having a boy, I would like to sort through my massive waves of little pink clothes and clear them out. I love clearing things out!
When I got married, I meant it forever. Period. That being said, there are many things in life that go off kilter. No one is perfect and neither is life. I believe in working 200% to make your marriage work. There is no way I would quit on it. That is not the commitment I make to my husband, myself and for my children. I do believe though, that it takes two people to make a marriage work and only one person to give up on it. My mom worked her ass off to make her marriage work, but my father had checked out (for numerous reasons, mostly personal, not something my mother could have changed). I am very happy that she made the decision to move forward after the divorce. It's not the end of life, but was really a good beginning for us, after 8 years of my father dragging out the divorce (that he initiated). Everyone deserves to be happy and that is a healthy example to set for your children. Unfortunately, sometimes that means divorce.
